Dare to Stand Up for Yourself

Sometimes you must take from life that which belongs to you. In the journey to attain success, life may seem like a struggle, and when life pound you to the ground, will you get up right away and punch life in the face or curl up in a fetus position on the ground? When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back; It takes courage to succeed in life.

Some hindrances are just inevitable during the quest for success, and the best you can do is to be courageous, resilient and optimistic to withstand those hindrances as they come. But they will eventually pass by. “Tough times don’t last longer but tough people do”. Your role is to play the hero of your own story and heroes are made through tears, sweat and blood. Therefore, do not bend nor succumb to those hindrances. The greatest achievers of all time are the ones that make history with the spirit of ‘let’s face it’.

Some people just want you to be good, but never want you to be better than them. That’s life and you surely know that; that’s why you must be soldier of yourself sometimes. Haters will talk, “Let ‘em say”. Just care less about them and don’t keep their thoughts in your mind in order to have some free mental space.

There are many successful people in the world that has been a victim of hatred, disappointment, setback, rejection, discrimination and so on, due to the people in their circle. But do you know one secret? Troubles are like washing machines that beat us down, hit us, spin and twist us all over, but in the end, we will come out brighter and sparkling.

The best you can do is to stand up for yourself, be yourself, and shine amongst those who never believed you could make it in life.


Dare to Start Today: Determination Beats Procrastination

Never leave for tomorrow what must be done today, lack of determination and procrastination can be more killing than cancer, that’s why you must act fast and accordingly on any set goal. Never wait until it’s too late, the little you can do at time may not be the best one, but half bread is better than none.

Remarkable success can be daunting to achieve, that’s why you must brace yourself properly in the quest to attain it. Remarkable success comes only with sacrifice and struggles, don’t waste your precious time seeking shortcuts; many have tried it, but it does not worth it.

Microwave solutions only works for a brief period, you can try it and you will see the how it is. Today is never too late to start working on how to achieve your big hairy audacious goal, lay a sturdy foundation to build your success upon and it will survive all weather.

A journey of thousand miles usually start with a step, today is never too late. Start preparing yourself for success today and go with a baby step, one step at a time and watch yourself setting remarkable landmarks and achieving your big hairy audacious goal in life.


Sunday Motivation: Be Optimistic and Live Intentionally

To grow in life we need a little change, and these changes doesn’t come easy, they usually come in unpleasant forms, but Nature has endowed us with innate strength to subsist, despite series of tidal waves we may encounter in life.

Most of the things that are crucial to our lives are determined by biology and culture, but the only way to take over the ownership of life is by learning to direct our psychic energy in line with our own intentions.

An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward, when life is dragging you back with difficulties or unpleasant circumstances, it means it’s preparing to launch you into something great, all you have to do is to just stay focused and be optimistic; the courage to be optimistic and live intentionally will make you experience a wonderful fulfilled life.

Persistence Beats Resistance

Success is what am living for, but throughout my life journey searching for external success, I have got more disapproval than approvals, and those few approvals I have got are golden approvals. Those approvals are my remarkable success that I persevere to achieve despite many disapproval which are failures; and through this experience, I knew that persistence beats resistance in all ways.

In the process of working towards achieving success in life, many people will say they are pushing, that PUSH is a verb, but also a great acronym that signify an amazing motivational phrase, PUSH – Persist Until Something Happens; that’s my definition of push in any endeavor that will bring about a remarkable success. Winners are not the people who never fail but people who never quit, you can join the league of successful people as well, but you must be able and willing to PUSH.

To be able to push while you are working towards achieving your goals, you must be courageous to be resilient, you must be confident and optimistic. Perseverance, determination and focus are the keys to universal success. If you can persist while having a sharp vision of what you are aiming for in life, then success is a sure thing for you and your achievement is limitless.


Hello! Ajibola is here (Sorry for the wait)

Many of you would have been wondering that where is this guy. I am well and alive, but I have been so busy lately with college, work and some other life commitments. I miss you all as much as you all missed me, I missed the blogosphere vibes as I have been far away from it recently. I still take time to respond to peoples’ comments and visit others blog though.

Many thanks to you all for your support and the love you all have for this blog, I really appreciate your commitment for visiting my blog daily despite my recent absence. You all should be expecting some amazing articles from me soon. I haven’t hit the wall yet, and I can assure you all of that, is just that am highly fixed up with loads of stuffs as I said earlier.

These are the abstract of few post that are coming soon, and each line represents each post:

  1. Never leave for tomorrow what must be done today, lack of determination and procrastination can be more killing than cancer; you must act fast on any set plan.
  2. Sometimes you must take from life that which belongs to you, some people just want you to be good, but never want you to be better than them; you must be soldier of yourself sometimes.

If there is any specific topic you would like me to write about, you can suggest that in the comment section and I will try my possible best to deliver it accordingly, but make sure the topic is something related to my blogging niche. Many thanks to you all and stay blessed.

Being Optimistic and Living in the Now

The joyful smile on your face doesn’t mean everything concerning you is perfect, but you have decided to look beyond the imperfections and be happy. The life you’re living may be even far from being perfect, but you have to be living it as if it’s perfect, you must be optimistic and be grateful for everything that you have, including the gift of life, knowing that when there is life, there is hope; being optimistic is the best way to live life.

There is nothing wrong with you, you might have not achieved everything that you want by now, but Nature will always provide you with all things that you ever truly needed. You must stay focused, knowing what you are aiming and living for, you must think less about everything and start living in the now, knowing that it is the moment for life. Live one day at a time and be optimistic for a better, wonderful and fulfilled tomorrow.

Monday Motivation: True Happiness Comes From Within

Sometimes it seems awkward when people say “they are in pursuit of happiness”. We are born happy and happiness is innate. Happiness is not a place, thing to run after or to be achieved. Happiness comes from within, “Seeking happiness outside of ourselves is like waiting for sunshine in a cave facing north” – Tibetan proverb.

No matter what your present situation is, you must have a reason to be happy still. Being happy just because – it can be anything, look around you, evaluate your life and be grateful for all you have got. Even if you have nothing to your name, being happy for the gift of life is a wonderful experience, “While there’s life, there’s hope” – Marcus Tullius Cicero.


Choosing to be happy will increase your overall productivity and keep your creative juice flowing always in your work life, you will be able to live more intentionally while doing more of the things you love. Happiness is a choice and you are responsible for your own happiness.

Happiness is not determined by what is happening around you, but rather what is happening inside you. Contentment and gratitude brings about happiness and if you are happy by yourself, you will experience great success in your life. Being grateful and optimistic always are the roots of happiness that brings success in life.

Start your Monday with grateful and optimistic mindset and have a great week ahead.


How to Experience a Wonderful Fulfilled Life with Self-compassion

Good day happy people, I hope and trust you are all doing great. Today’s daily dose of inspirational motivation is a quick read and extract from the great man himself. I hope you get the dose of inspiration and motivation needed to get you all through the day; stay blessed and have a wonderful day.

“Fall in love again with your life and your dream. Take time to appreciate the brilliance, beauty, and magnificence of your own life. Never forget that you are an unrepeatable miracle! Great things are supposed to happen for you and through you. Care for yourself and nurture your vitality, energy and life force.

Silence your own unforgiving spirit and extreme self-criticism, that can steal your joy, harm your health and stunt your personal growth. Give up microwaved solutions to challenges and shortcuts to success. You can’t pull up a plant up from its roots to make it grow. The things that really matter in life take purposeful planning, time, love and care. Do your work, stay the course, live in the present and love yourself even more than you have in the past. You have GREATNESS within you!” – Les Brown.

Life Lessons

As a student of life, I have learnt many life lessons and am still learning. These lessons are usually life circumstances, either good or bad, and through these lessons I have gained various experiences. My knowledge is based on the facts and ideas that I have acquired through life experiences, but as a lover of wisdom, I usually utilize reason to discern and judge which aspects of that knowledge are true, right, lasting, and applicable to my life.

In this article, I will mention few but great lessons that life has taught me through experiences, and I hope you all found it useful in your endeavors as well.

  1. Time is the overseer of all things. There is time for everything.
  2. Natural life is like series of events. Life is in series, and it’s amazing how it evolves.
  3. Natural life has stages. When one door closes another open and life goes on.

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P. S. This is my article which is posted as a guest post on a friends’s website.

Let’s Talk About Friendship

Who is a friend? who is a loyal friend? Who is your friend? Friend is anyone who you knew quite well and a person that both of you have mutual love for each other, and it’s possible that you’re not of the same family, creed, culture, and you may be older or younger to the person. There are several types of friends, among them are companion, honest confidant, friend like sibling, neighborhood friend, chat mate, colleague and lots more.

I will explain the three types of friends that you will meet during your life journey. The first type are friends like leaves of the tree, second are friends like branches of the tree, and third are friends like roots of the tree. Below, I will explain them in detail, one after the other. Read more…

P. S. This is my article which is posted as a guest post on a friends’s website.