Liberation Through Communication

We humans are not as free as we think, as our thoughts usually hold us captive at some point, which make us scared to express ourselves. Being a prisoner to our own thoughts is bad, as no one can liberate us from this prison of mind but ourselves; and the only way we can liberate ourselves is to express ourselves without fear, either metaphorically or literally.

That’s why some people choose various type of arts like poetry, drawing, painting, singing, dancing, speaking, and writing which is therapeutic as a means of expressing their feelings to the world around them. The art of communication is one powerful and most important characteristic of humans. In addition, a person’s success depends on effective communication.

Liberation through communication is one great means of avoiding stress and anxiety, and being between these two Scylla and Charybdis can make life tough. Nevertheless, if you can be courageous to express those thoughts in your mind in any way suitable for you, then you have achieved personal freedom. Moreover, other people around you may be liberated when they get in touch with you or your piece.

Achieving personal freedom will help you experience the joy of being, you will be successful – being happy and living up to your potentials, and it will keep your creative juice flowing.


Achieving Personal Happiness

Good day happy people, I hope you are all feeling great today. In my previous post, I posted a quote about work-life balance, and I hope you all understand the depth of that quote. There is more to life than living with stress and anxiety. You’re born joyful and that’s the reason you must be happy in life.

However, you may experience one of those days, don’t panic and don’t let that weigh you down; you must summon your courage and stay strong. You may not have absolute control over everything that happens in your life, but you surely have control over your thoughts. Teach your mind to be positive and see goodness in every situation, that is what matter most.

Enjoying yourself, is to be in joy with your body, soul, and spirit. Happiness comes from nowhere but within, and only you can make yourself happy. Treat yourself after every accomplishment, it may be anything like – shopping for yourself, socialize with friends, take a getaway trip, go to cinema or concert and you can do whatever it is that is suitable for you.

If you consider doing any of those activities, you will feel how your heart will be filled with abundant joy, and being happy in life is all that matters.


Let’s Talk About Dream

When you heard about dream, what comes to your mind? Dream is a mental picture of life, and some people believe that life stops the day human stop dreaming, but life never stop, it keeps evolving progressively; with or without dreams. However, a dream left without acting upon can die and fade away. Thus, when dream dies, life becomes a bird with a broken wing.

People dream various types of dreams, which are based on their thoughts and feelings. But the ability to dream or have vision into future events is one of the greatest gift a human can have. The gift of vision is awesome, and it can support the plan of making a dream reality.

People will say – I see myself having the perfect body, driving my own car, living in my own house, having a perfect family, having a well-paid job and so on. Every day people have different dreams, which are based on any thought or feeling that dominates their mind. In addition, for these dreams to become reality, people must wake up and act upon their dreams.

Successful people always have a vision, a plan, and they do whatever it takes to make their dream a reality, while believing that a little progress each day adds up to big results. It’s good to dream and to believe in the beauty of such dream. As a human endowed with potentials, you must not dream your life, you must live your dreams; by working on your dreams every day.


Humans Greatest Achievement in Life

The pride of humans is not in their sexuality, physical appearance, or aptitudes as all humans are endowed differently. However, those gifts of nature may contribute to the success of each person in life, if used aptly.

Whereas, the strongest achievement which all humans can take pride from, is to love themselves, be themselves, and shine amongst those who never believed they could; that’s the greatest success and a sign of victory.


Achieving Personal Freedom

There is a difference between pain and suffering. Pain persists as long you are alive and dealing with others but suffering is a choice. You may put yourself into sufferings, if you usually have emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.

If words control you, that means everyone else can control you. Also, if anyone speak negatively to you and you negatively react instantly, that means you agree that the person know exactly what is going on in your life.

True power is sitting back and observing everything with logic; true power is restraint. Just breathe and allow things to pass, and you will feel the true freedom from within. Then you will know that the greatest of all freedom which is a necessity for all human is personal freedom. Thus, you will experience the joy of being after achieving it.

Dare to Stand Up for Yourself

Sometimes you must take from life that which belongs to you. In the journey to attain success, life may seem like a struggle, and when life pound you to the ground, will you get up right away and punch life in the face or curl up in a fetus position on the ground? When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back; It takes courage to succeed in life.

Some hindrances are just inevitable during the quest for success, and the best you can do is to be courageous, resilient and optimistic to withstand those hindrances as they come. But they will eventually pass by. “Tough times don’t last longer but tough people do”. Your role is to play the hero of your own story and heroes are made through tears, sweat and blood. Therefore, do not bend nor succumb to those hindrances. The greatest achievers of all time are the ones that make history with the spirit of ‘let’s face it’.

Some people just want you to be good, but never want you to be better than them. That’s life and you surely know that; that’s why you must be soldier of yourself sometimes. Haters will talk, “Let ‘em say”. Just care less about them and don’t keep their thoughts in your mind in order to have some free mental space.

There are many successful people in the world that has been a victim of hatred, disappointment, setback, rejection, discrimination and so on, due to the people in their circle. But do you know one secret? Troubles are like washing machines that beat us down, hit us, spin and twist us all over, but in the end, we will come out brighter and sparkling.

The best you can do is to stand up for yourself, be yourself, and shine amongst those who never believed you could make it in life.

Dare to Start Today: Determination Beats Procrastination

Never leave for tomorrow what must be done today, lack of determination and procrastination can be more killing than cancer, that’s why you must act fast and accordingly on any set goal. Never wait until it’s too late, the little you can do at time may not be the best one, but half bread is better than none.

Remarkable success can be daunting to achieve, that’s why you must brace yourself properly in the quest to attain it. Remarkable success comes only with sacrifice and struggles, don’t waste your precious time seeking shortcuts; many have tried it, but it does not worth it.

Microwave solutions only works for a brief period, you can try it and you will see the how it is. Today is never too late to start working on how to achieve your big hairy audacious goal, lay a sturdy foundation to build your success upon and it will survive all weather.

A journey of thousand miles usually start with a step, today is never too late. Start preparing yourself for success today and go with a baby step, one step at a time and watch yourself setting remarkable landmarks and achieving your big hairy audacious goal in life.


Sunday Motivation: Be Optimistic and Live Intentionally

To grow in life we need a little change, and these changes doesn’t come easy, they usually come in unpleasant forms, but Nature has endowed us with innate strength to subsist, despite series of tidal waves we may encounter in life.

Most of the things that are crucial to our lives are determined by biology and culture, but the only way to take over the ownership of life is by learning to direct our psychic energy in line with our own intentions.

An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward, when life is dragging you back with difficulties or unpleasant circumstances, it means it’s preparing to launch you into something great, all you have to do is to just stay focused and be optimistic; the courage to be optimistic and live intentionally will make you experience a wonderful fulfilled life.

Persistence Beats Resistance

Success is what am living for, but throughout my life journey searching for external success, I have got more disapproval than approvals, and those few approvals I have got are golden approvals. Those approvals are my remarkable success that I persevere to achieve despite many disapproval which are failures; and through this experience, I knew that persistence beats resistance in all ways.

In the process of working towards achieving success in life, many people will say they are pushing, that PUSH is a verb, but also a great acronym that signify an amazing motivational phrase, PUSH – Persist Until Something Happens; that’s my definition of push in any endeavor that will bring about a remarkable success. Winners are not the people who never fail but people who never quit, you can join the league of successful people as well, but you must be able and willing to PUSH.

To be able to push while you are working towards achieving your goals, you must be courageous to be resilient, you must be confident and optimistic. Perseverance, determination and focus are the keys to universal success. If you can persist while having a sharp vision of what you are aiming for in life, then success is a sure thing for you and your achievement is limitless.


Hello! Ajibola is here (Sorry for the wait)

Many of you would have been wondering that where is this guy. I am well and alive, but I have been so busy lately with college, work and some other life commitments. I miss you all as much as you all missed me, I missed the blogosphere vibes as I have been far away from it recently. I still take time to respond to peoples’ comments and visit others blog though.

Many thanks to you all for your support and the love you all have for this blog, I really appreciate your commitment for visiting my blog daily despite my recent absence. You all should be expecting some amazing articles from me soon. I haven’t hit the wall yet, and I can assure you all of that, is just that am highly fixed up with loads of stuffs as I said earlier.

These are the abstract of few post that are coming soon, and each line represents each post:

  1. Never leave for tomorrow what must be done today, lack of determination and procrastination can be more killing than cancer; you must act fast on any set plan.
  2. Sometimes you must take from life that which belongs to you, some people just want you to be good, but never want you to be better than them; you must be soldier of yourself sometimes.

If there is any specific topic you would like me to write about, you can suggest that in the comment section and I will try my possible best to deliver it accordingly, but make sure the topic is something related to my blogging niche. Many thanks to you all and stay blessed.