Personal freedom is a lifeblood, it is one crucial factor that define human essence and everyone always dream of achieving it. Below are four ways to achieve personal freedom.
Be impeccable with your words
Your words are more powerful than you can ever imagine. Try as much as you can to be impeccable with your words and guide every speech that emanate from your mouth. There is energy in all words that comes out of your mouth and once you utter a speech it connects to the natural forces of the ether which will manifest it whether you like it or not. Whether you pray or curse, the power of word will surely manifest. If you can control and guide your tongue, it won’t get you into troubles.
Don’t take anything personally
It is not all about you, if you think so, you will be trapped by personal importance. If someone say “you’re the best or you’re the worst” don’t take it personal, they are just expressing their feelings at that moment; don’t get carried away by personal importance. Everyone live in a completely different world from the one you live in. When you take something personally, you accept that they know what is in your world. Some situation can be personal that someone insult you directly, it has nothing to do with you, it is about that person.
Don’t make assumptions
It is good not to have answers to everything and no one can know everything anyway. All humans have this issue of trying to be right or showing that they are more intelligent than others. I think this trait is embedded in human gene. As you are growing up, you must get rid of this trait and it is for your own good. Whether you know something or not let it be known if asked without hesitation, don’t play guess games. If you try not to make assumptions, there will be no drama in your life and you will stay out of troubles.
Always do your best
Above all, always try your best. Doing your best will make it possible to practice the other three habits constantly and they will become deeply ingrained behaviors for you. Just as you need courage to practice all other virtues constantly, so you need this fourth one to continually practice the above three. I knew you are only human and your best may be varied at times but as you build the habit of the four new principles, your best will become better than it used to be.