There is a difference between pain and suffering. Pain persists as long you are alive and dealing with others but suffering is a choice. You may put yourself into sufferings, if you usually have emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
If words control you, that means everyone else can control you. Also, if anyone speak negatively to you and you negatively react instantly, that means you agree that the person know exactly what is going on in your life.
True power is sitting back and observing everything with logic; true power is restraint. Just breathe and allow things to pass, and you will feel the true freedom from within. Then you will know that the greatest of all freedom which is a necessity for all human is personal freedom. Thus, you will experience the joy of being after achieving it.
“Dare to be…
When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.
When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine the light.
Where there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.
When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.
When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.
When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.
When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.
When times are tough, dare to be tougher.
When love hurts you, dare to love again.
When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.
When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.
When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.
When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.
When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.
When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.
Dare to be the best you can –
At all times, Dare to be!”
– Steve Maraboli [Life, the Truth and Being Free]
Like a tingling feeling and sensation of
sneezing is what happens when
one finally achieve significant success.
Sighing will erupt from the tip of the toe
Run through the body and discharge
through all orifice in the head.
Some people usually shed tears of joy
Smile will force itself through sobbing
That’s a great sign of victory.
It’s happiness that brings success in life
There’s no need to pursue happiness
Happiness is innate.
Taking happiness advantage brings
about inspiration and motivation
needed to achieve success.
Sometimes you must take from life that which belongs to you. In the journey to attain success, life may seem like a struggle, and when life pound you to the ground, will you get up right away and punch life in the face or curl up in a fetus position on the ground? When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back; It takes courage to succeed in life.
Some hindrances are just inevitable during the quest for success, and the best you can do is to be courageous, resilient and optimistic to withstand those hindrances as they come. But they will eventually pass by. “Tough times don’t last longer but tough people do”. Your role is to play the hero of your own story and heroes are made through tears, sweat and blood. Therefore, do not bend nor succumb to those hindrances. The greatest achievers of all time are the ones that make history with the spirit of ‘let’s face it’.
Some people just want you to be good, but never want you to be better than them. That’s life and you surely know that; that’s why you must be soldier of yourself sometimes. Haters will talk, “Let ‘em say”. Just care less about them and don’t keep their thoughts in your mind in order to have some free mental space.
There are many successful people in the world that has been a victim of hatred, disappointment, setback, rejection, discrimination and so on, due to the people in their circle. But do you know one secret? Troubles are like washing machines that beat us down, hit us, spin and twist us all over, but in the end, we will come out brighter and sparkling.
The best you can do is to stand up for yourself, be yourself, and shine amongst those who never believed you could make it in life.
Never leave for tomorrow what must be done today, lack of determination and procrastination can be more killing than cancer, that’s why you must act fast and accordingly on any set goal. Never wait until it’s too late, the little you can do at time may not be the best one, but half bread is better than none.
Remarkable success can be daunting to achieve, that’s why you must brace yourself properly in the quest to attain it. Remarkable success comes only with sacrifice and struggles, don’t waste your precious time seeking shortcuts; many have tried it, but it does not worth it.
Microwave solutions only works for a brief period, you can try it and you will see the how it is. Today is never too late to start working on how to achieve your big hairy audacious goal, lay a sturdy foundation to build your success upon and it will survive all weather.
A journey of thousand miles usually start with a step, today is never too late. Start preparing yourself for success today and go with a baby step, one step at a time and watch yourself setting remarkable landmarks and achieving your big hairy audacious goal in life.